Wednesday, 26 September 2012
The importance of beautifying was instilled in me at a young age. Somewhat mortifyingly, about as soon as puberty hit, Mum whisked me to a beautician's and I was made aware of the importance of waxing, and the role it was to play in my life henceforth. The downside to having lots of nice thick Asian hair is, well, having lots of nice thick Asian hair. Then came nails... I was a terrible nail biter as a child. My parents tried everything to make me stop, including many promises of lovely manicures and a veritable rainbow of polishes if I would just let them grow enough to warrant some. I sometimes wish that I'd got them to write down all of these pledges, so that I could cash them in now. Funnily enough, the nail biting stopped almost exactly around when I got engaged. It was as if an inner confidence light just switched on and that was the end of that.
As I got older and started earning, beauty treatments became a regular and much loved fixture. I began to really cherish the time alone with my thoughts. I'm still not entirely comfortable in spas, mind you. There's always that hideous anxiety about when to remove clothing. I fret that I'll reveal my entire wobbly splendour to the 20yr old beautician with a majestic "ta-dah!" only to find she just wanted to know if I wanted whale music or pan pipes. At the moment I'm still recovering from a fairly traumatic experience at a spa in May. Mid massage, blissfully floating away on a cloud of oily, pan-pipey bliss, I was asked to turn over. As I did so, the entire massage table came crashing down. As I hit the floor, naked, oily and let's say somewhat surprised, I was horrified. My first thought was that of course, this was entirely my fault for carrying more than a few extra pounds. As the mortified beautician (my goodness, she must have laughed till she cried that night) explained that actually the table had been broken for a while, a flood of giggles gurgled up to the surface from me, and washed around the little beauty room. I giggled and chuckled and am still laughing now as I remember it. The women on spa posters always look so serene, so poised, so gently knowing. I am not one of those women.
Mr W is frequently baffled by the necessity for a beauty budget. We have even discussed whether some of the basic essentials could be done at home. I'd like to think my recollections of the times I tried to do my own bikini waxing in my first flat have turned him sufficiently green to put him off this plan. Still, I am trying to be a little thriftier. Last Friday night I did my own hair colouring. Unfortunately, I forgot to find a top that was easy to remove, so had to sit downstairs for the 45min colour treatment completely topless, hoping that there would be no emergencies that would require running outside. I'm also trying out the mighty Bio-Oil, in a bid to have glowing beautiful skin by Christmas. After initial enthusiasm at the prospect of being in charge of greasing me up of an evening, Mr W is starting to look reluctant. I think he's perhaps recalling our early months with our eldest son, where the health visitors' advice for everything was to slather him in either breast milk or olive oil. We reached a point where holding our precious baby required having the agility and grip of a high school quarterback. Given the story above, it's probably unideal for me to take to our bed slicked in oil. Still, it could make for an interesting story at A&E.
Posted by Me at 03:38